Thoughts on frienship

I’ve heard that you change the most in your twenties, and from what I can see sitting somewhere around mid twenty seven this could definitely be true.

Every year that passes I learn so much, and I become a stronger person who is more sure of myself, my decisions, and my capabilites.

I think every young girl really leans on her friends to tell her she is doing the right thing and to make her feel good about her choices. In the past year I have noticed that I am more sure of myself and I don’t need that validation anymore. I love my friends for their supportiveness, kindness, and for just being there, but I don’t need them the way I used too. They don’t define who I am or what I do.

Realizing this has brought a new appreciation for my friends. Now that I see I don’t really need them, I know that the only reason they are there is because I love them.